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U.K.’s Pakistani Problem: Cousins Marrying Cousins

<p>I’m a believer in cultural superiority&period; I don’t believe that just because a culture is different&comma; it automatically qualifies as equal with no footnotes added whatsoever&period; Call it racism&comma; it&&num;8217&semi;s not&comma; and what about this&colon;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>As a Jew&comma; I find Hasidic Judaism’s divorce laws…granting most all practical rights to the man and none to the woman…totally barbaric&period; I find America’s <em>secular<&sol;em> laws relating to divorce far superior to the Hasids&comma; and I feel no shame or guilt in criticizing &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;my people” for it&period; I also believe it’s wrong for the Iranian government to hang homosexuals from lampposts&comma; and I consider my culture superior to theirs for us not doing so&period; &lpar;Plus&comma; I believe the Jewish food culture stinks compared to that of the Italians&&num;8217&semi;&period;&rpar;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>If you can’t accept that cultural superiority is a real thing&comma; <em>stop reading right now <&sol;em>and don’t get yourself aggravated by going any further&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>That being said&comma; and because you obviously agree with me about cultural superiority since you’re still reading this &lpar;or you ignored my advice above&rpar;&comma; it goes to follow that the emigration of people from certain cultures will either better or worsen the culture of the new host country&period; An MIT engineering graduate moving to Uganda can help design and build water wells&comma; thus helping the society as a whole and uplifting that culture&period; A Ugandan cab driver moving to Boston can’t help society by teaching Red Sox fans how to slaughter a goat in a one-bedroom apartment without getting blood on the walls&period; &lpar;If you can’t see the difference here&comma; you should<em> really<&sol;em> stop reading now&period;&rpar;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>So let’s go to the U&period;K&period; and take a look at why some concerns about Muslim communities in modern Western societies isn’t Islamophobia&comma; but common sense&colon;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Did you know that <em>many<&sol;em> Pakistani Muslims marry their first cousins&comma; and it’s perfectly legal&quest; I assume you know that first cousins marrying poses enormous genetical damage risk to their offspring&comma; correct&quest; So why do Pakistanis do it&comma; despite the evidence&comma; and why does the U&period;K&period; <em>allow<&sol;em> it&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>First and foremost&comma; Pakistanis marry their first cousins because they believe that no one can love them any better than &OpenCurlyDoubleQuote;someone in the family&period;” &lpar;Okay&comma; so they don’t get any points for self-esteem&period;&rpar; One of the other reasons for cousins marrying is arranged marriages&period; It’s easier to finally get the kid out of the house by calling your sister and asking&colon;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>”Hey&excl; What is your daughter Rashida doing today&quest; My son Abdul wants to get married&excl; I&&num;8217&semi;m pretty sure they already have the hots for each other&comma; because remember that time we gave them a bath together when they were five&excl;&quest;”<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The younger generation are often forced into these marriages by way of blackmail&comma; coercion&comma; family honor&comma; and a feeling of debt to the family&period; The U&period;K&period; even has a Forced Marriages Unit &lpar;yes&comma; there is such a thing&rpar;&comma; and half of their average 2&comma;000  cases involve Pakistanis&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Finally&comma; Pakistani Muslims marry their first cousins because Islam says it’s okay to do so&comma; and while other religious denominations may not specifically <em>forbid<&sol;em> first cousin marriage in their original holy texts&comma; most if not all have made it a part of their doctrines not to do so&comma; since science has advanced and the facts are loud and clear&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>And with the facts loud and clear&comma; <em>a 25&percnt; minimum chance of having a genetically damaged child when cousin marries cousin&comma;<&sol;em> consider these facts and figures for the last time serious studies were done in the U&period;K&period;&colon;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>In Bradford&comma; England&comma; 75&percnt; of Pakistani Muslims marry a first cousin&period; In Birmingham&comma; it’s 50&percnt;&period; &lpar;That’s a lot of kissing cousins right there&comma; but they’re not just kissing&period;&rpar;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>33&percnt; of all genetic diseases in England result from Pakistani first cousin marriages&comma; while Pakistanis only account for 1&period;5&percnt; of the total population&period; Pakistani first cousin children suffer from learning disabilities three times as often as other groups&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>It’s not uncommon for first cousins who&comma; after having a genetically disabled child&comma; their first child&comma; have <em>more c<&sol;em>hildren&comma; even though the evidence is right there in the very beginning that each of the parents carries a damaging recessive gene&period; It’s therefore also not uncommon to see families where two out of four&comma; three out of six&comma; of the children are genetically damaged&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>These Muslims just trust in God that their kids will be okay&period; In fact&comma; you even have intelligent Pakistanis&comma; seriously educated people&comma; who because of their own successes in first cousin marriages &lpar;kids who appear to be healthy now&rpar;&comma; totally deny any medical&sol;scientific danger at all&period; Their culture takes precedence over common sense&period; And before you book your next 5-star vacation to Islamabad&comma; consider that if these horrors ongoing on in the developed world of the U&period;K&period;&comma; can you imagine what the hell is going on in P<em>akistan&excl;&quest;<&sol;em><&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>The costs to the U&period;K&period;’s national health service and other social services is astronomical for all this&comma; but what about these poor&comma; suffering&comma; doomed kids&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>A small minority in the Pakistani Muslim community&comma; including some religious leaders&comma; highly discourage the practice of first cousin marriage&comma; and at the very least&comma; strongly recommend pre-pregnancy genetic testing&period; However&comma; genetic testing only reveals half of the potential abnormalities&comma; and most Pakistanis ignore any alarming test results anyway&comma; because it’s all in God’s hands&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>I was amazed to learn than even in parts of the U&period;S&period;&comma; first cousin marriages are still allowed without restriction&comma; and allowed in some others with required prenuptial DNA testing&period; However…<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>We don’t have a predominant<em> culture<&sol;em> of first cousin marriage in modern day America&comma; and we certainly don’t encourage it&period; Those jokes about Appalachia are just jokes now&comma; but maybe I should look into it further&excl;  And maybe we should also look into large Pakistani Muslim communities here in the U&period;S&period; to see who’s marrying who&period;<&sol;p>&NewLine;<p>Unfortunately&comma; like the U&period;K&period;&comma; it’s politically incorrect to do so&comma; because that’s just Islamophobia&comma; and all cultures are totally equal&comma; correct&quest;<&sol;p>&NewLine;

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